Father Knows Best #5: Walking in Integrity

"Father Knows Best” blog letters focused on Foundational Values: Faith, Identity & Integrity, and filled with wisdom from Bro. Percy, biblical affirmation, and a healing challenge.

Bertillia Percival-Lavern

7/30/20252 min read

Dear Daughter,

I know this world celebrates image. Applause. Appearances.
But I want to tell you something I told you many times growing up:

“It’s not who you are when everyone’s watching that matters most. It’s who you are when no one is.”

Integrity is the invisible strength that holds everything together.
It’s not flashy. It’s not loud. But it’s rare. And it’s priceless.

I watched you make the hard right choice even when it would’ve been easier to cut corners. That’s integrity. And that’s who you are.

God sees every moment. Every time you honor Him in silence.


Every time you choose honesty. Every time you walk away from gossip, speak truth in love, or keep your word when it’s inconvenient.

Keep doing what’s right, even when it costs something.


Because your reward doesn’t come from people — it comes from God.

📖 Scriptural Anchor

“The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity.”
— Proverbs 11:3 (NIV)

Heavenly Father,
Thank You for planting integrity deep in my daughter’s heart.
Help her to stand firm when no one’s looking.
Strengthen her to choose what’s right, even when it’s not easy.
Let her know You are proud of her — not just for what she does in public, but for how she honors You in private.
Keep her steps aligned with Your truth, and bless her for her faithfulness.

In Jesus’ name,
Amen.

🪞 Reflection Prompt: The Quiet Test

Ask yourself:

  • When was the last time I made the right choice without anyone knowing?

  • What situation right now is calling me to walk in quiet integrity?

This week, choose one small way to honor God privately — in action, word, or attitude. Then watch what He does with it.

✍️ From a Father’s heart to yours,

Bro. Percy

💬 Personal Insight from Me

My daddy used to say, “Don’t do it because I’m watching — do it because it’s right.”


That stuck with me. Especially in moments where my integrity was the only thing I had left.

Now I pass it to you: What you do in silence matters.


And you’re building something far stronger than a reputation — you’re building a legacy. A legacy that your future generation can look back on an emulate or people outside of your circle of influence can admire with respect.

🌿 Healing Invitation

If you’re learning to walk out your values in a world that often says “fake it,” you’re not alone.

At PossAble Solutions, we walk the real path — rooted in character, honesty, and faith.
Let’s keep building a life you’re proud of… even behind the scenes.

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✍️ Your Sister,

Bertillia 💕